Post # 32
You sound like you are dealing with this as well as you can and I admire your honesty here on the boards. I hope if I was in your situation I would have the courage to leave him! It’s actually a good example of doing everything you can to preserve your marriage while also respecting yourself. I wish you a peaceful coparenting journey!
Post # 33
I’m so sorry to hear about the painful situation you are going through. It sounds like you have very good reasons for your decision, and have exhausted all the possible resources at your disposal. I am thinking about you, and wish you the best.
Post # 34
You are SUCH a strong and brave woman. Sending you best wishes for peace, healing and love all around.
Post # 35
- Wedding: May 2014 - Beach
I’m so sorry you’re feeling this way. I know nothing will probably will make you feel better but you have to know that it sound like you really needed to end it for whatever the reason is. I hope you do find love again and i hope it isn’t so painful for your son 🙂 keep him close and explain everything to him and may god be with you in those coming days
Post # 36
@stardustintheeyes: The end of a marriage is always sad and so im sending you lots of internet hugs
Regarding trust,i read something back along that has stayed with me and i think its so true
”A relationship without trust is like a car with no gas,You can sit in it for as long as you like but it aint going anywhere”.
Wishing you all the very best
Post # 37
Aww, lots of hugs to you. I’m can’t even imagine what you’re going through right now. You seem to be handling it with a lot of grace and poise…you seem very strong.
Post # 38
If it was something that is unforgiveable. I would be livid. Beyond livid. You couldn’t have not kep this a secret? And waited until we were married? UGH.
Post # 39
@stardustintheeyes: Oh man. That’s awful. I really feel for you. It’s going to be tough for awhile, I know from experience. But you WILL get through this. *hugs*
Post # 40
@stardustintheeyes: You sound like such a strong and level headed woman. I am deeply sorry that you are having to go through this and I wish you the absolute best throughout this process. Sending lots of hugs your way!
Post # 41
@stardustintheeyes: I am so sorry. I can’t imagine how you’re feeling, but it will get better with time
Post # 42
@stardustintheeyes: You are a strong woman! Good on you for honoring your vow to yourself! I’m sorry you are in this situation and I hope happiness finds it’s way in your life again Soon. XO
Post # 43
@stardustintheeyes: You should be incredibly proud of yourself for taking a stand and refusing to stay in something that goes against your values and doesn’t give you complete happiness and fulfillness. Trust is a huge issue and was a huge part in the demise of my first marriage. Stay strong, good luck! xo
Post # 44
@stardustintheeyes: While I am a firm believer in marriage and what it represents through the good times and bad. I also know too many people who stay in terrible marriages and it breaks them down as a person. You deserve all the happiness in the world and I find it so admirable that you are allowing yourself that and going about this in the most loving and mature way possible.
Post # 45
@stardustintheeyes: I’m so sorry. But you seem like you know what you want and don’t want and what you won’t put up with and I commend you for that. It takes a lot of strength to make the decision you’re making. I wish you the best!
Post # 46
@stardustintheeyes: I wish you, your ex, and your son the very best in being able to go forward and work together. You all sound very mature and are handling this situation very well. Good luck, and *hugs*