(Closed) My Marriage is over….

posted 8 years ago in Married Life
Post # 47
6252 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2013

@stardustintheeyes:  Oh no. I am so sorry to hear this. PM me if you would like to talk, anytime. I went through a divorce about six years ago myself.

Post # 48
2766 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2015

@stardustintheeyes:  I’m so sorry you’re going through this! You’ve evidently explored every avenue to strengthen your relationship, but dealbreakers are dealbreakers. The grace with which you wrote your post is admirable. 

Post # 49
2683 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

I’m so sorry to hear that. Much good will and strength as you both pick up the pieces.

Post # 50
409 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

@stardustintheeyes:  I have always found your posts and comments smart, honest and oh so kind. You seemlike such a rrefreshingly good person. I know you will continue dealing with this with your dignity and inner beauty intact. You deserve all the support and kindness you have shown to others. I’m so sorry you are going through this.  Thanks for sharing. 

Post # 51
5486 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: July 2012

Sending big hugs your way! 

Post # 53
7522 posts
Bumble Beekeeper

@stardustintheeyes:  Wow I think you are probably the most mature bee I have ever seen. You should be proud of yourself. Instead of torturing yourself and your partner, you have recognised that he is who he is and that there is nothing wrong with that. You have also recognised that he wont make you happy and have left the relationship to find someone that will be right for you. I think it is really great that you have realised that just because you two have different values doesn’t make him an evil douche bag.

I really hope other people read your story and learn something from it.

I wish you all the best and I think, even though it probably doesn’t feel like it, this is the start of some great things for you.

Post # 54
101 posts
Blushing bee

@stardustintheeyes:  I am so sorry you are going through this, but know that you have friends (even if they are internet friends) here.

I have not been here long, but I’ve enjoyed your posts and I admire your bravery for this post. I am glad to know that you will still be a part of our community.

All my best wishes for you while you continue forward in this journey.


Post # 55
4078 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

Just want to add my support.

I also want to applaud your maturity, insight and dignity in handling a horrid situation. I genuinely wish you well, keep us updated.

Post # 56
1580 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2015

@stardustintheeyes:  Oh no! I’m so sorry you’re going through this. This decision must have been so hard for you. I admire you so much, you’re such a strong, smart, level-headed woman that I have no doubt you’ve made the decision that’s right for you and will make you happy after you’ve had the chance to heal. 

Many, many internet (((hugs))) your way. 

Post # 58
6586 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2010

I just wanted to say that you are brave for posting this.  It is really easy to post when everything is going wonderfully.  But every stage of life, and relationships is not like that- so I commend you for being honest and sharing your story with the other bees.  I really do hope that you will stay around- you would be terribly missed if you left!

Post # 59
770 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

@stardustintheeyes:  *internet hugs* I’m so sorry you’re having to go through this. Stay strong and try and keep positive. Your post seems like you are. At least you’re very clear in why you’re doing this and remain on good terms.

Post # 61
2884 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

What a tough situation… I feel for you & will keep you in my prayers.

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