(Closed) My Marriage is over….

posted 7 years ago in Married Life
Post # 77
10985 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: City, State

I am sorry you’re going through this.  But, once the trust is gone, it’s gone & the damage can certainly be irreperable.

You are handling this with dignity & grace–you will never regret that.

And I have no doubt that there is a new & wonderful man in your future.  You have so much to offer; your intelligence, articulateness, emotional maturity–all prized traits that a good man will value.

Post # 78
2571 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

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@stardustintheeyes:  Just wanted to chime in and say that I’m sorry this happened as it’s not ever a pleasant thing. However, your approach and way of dealing with this shows a lot of strength, courage, and very keen self-awareness on your part. I know you will be just fine. 🙂

P.S. You’ve become sort of a staple on the Bee, so we’d be so sad to see you go!

Post # 80
1530 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

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@stardustintheeyes:  I’m sorry to hear about your marriage ending, but I am impressed by your rational thought process.  Good for you on being 100% honest with yourself and your husband.  You seem like a really strong woman.

Post # 81
1643 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: January 2015

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@stardustintheeyes:  you’re a strong sensible lady, and it will take time to heal, but you’ll get through. I saw this great quote the other day – life is tough, but so are you! And I think that’s a lovely thought 🙂 sending you hugs

Post # 82
5285 posts
Bee Keeper

@stardustintheeyes:  So sorry to hear but it looks like you made the right decision. Time will heal all Sending you internet hugs!

Post # 83
3081 posts
Sugar bee

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@stardustintheeyes:  I am so sorry for what you are going through. I have so much respect for you as you are handling it with such grace and modesty. After my parents spilt, I always really appreciated them being civil to eachother for the sake of us kids. I am glad you guys are ending things on good terms (not good, but you know what i mean) and can keep a friendship for your child. I truly do admire that.

I wish you the best in everything!

Post # 84
2511 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2009


Your decision sounds like the best one at this point. I agree, once certain situations occur & trust is breeched at that level, it is very hard to repair. If it were me, with the kind of person I am, I would never be able to let it go. It would always linger, poisoning the relationship until it would fall apart anyways. Forgiveness is one thing, forgetting is entirely another. 

Keep your head up! It sounds like you’re dealing extremely well with your decision. Best of luck & lots of prayers for you!

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