(Closed) My MARRIED brother is on Ok Cupid

posted 6 years ago in Family
Post # 2
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2015

he’s your brother why wouldnt you say anything?!!  well to him no to his wife. but im close with my brothers and i would absolutely raise hell with them.

Post # 3
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2015

I would have said something to him right then and there but that is the kind of relationship my brother and I have. I have never used OK Cupid but maybe it was one of those things he started a while ago and never cancelled?

Post # 4
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2000

Maybe they are swingers or in an open relationship?

Post # 5
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Honey bee

I would definitely say something TO HIM. Not to his wife. But yes I understand what you’re going through. Let’s just say my brother is no angel. 

Post # 6
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2015

I would absolutely say something to my brother!

Post # 7
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: April 2015

Ask him about it but I wouldn’t panic yet. I met my husband online and we both still get emails from the site years after deleting our accounts.

Post # 10
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2015

I probably would have said something. If he’s not active on the site, it should be no problem for him to explain.  I did the online dating thing and was on OK Cupid as well as POF, and you get alerts all the time for things like “some random person clicked on your profile”. I even got “Your new matches!” emails after I made my profile invisible. It’s entirely possible that he just never cancelled his account. 

I personally took forever to cancel mine, out of laziness. And I’m about 98% certain my Fiance probably hasn’t bothered to completely delete his account. 

Post # 11
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Honey bee

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MrsWizard:  No I don’t think it’s too late to say something now. 

Post # 12
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Bumble bee

If its really bothering you then you should ask him about it. I don’t think too much time has passed.

Post # 13
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: Victoria Wedding Chapel

Talk to him! It’s not too late. Tell him exactly what you told us. You were shocked and it didn’t sink in right away. I don’t have any brothers, but if I found out one of my married sisters had an online dating profile, I’d definitely ask them about it. Not in a confrontational way, but in a curious way. That’s so sad, and situations like that are so upsetting. Go ahead and have a chat with him about it.

Post # 14
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: April 2015

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MrsWizard:  Ugh. Bummer. Talk to him – maybe it’s not too late.

Post # 15
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2015

 

MrsWizard:  no i would still say something. i would be like dude wtf are you doing?!! lol

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