(Closed) My MIL is wrapping my husband around her finger w/out home, what can I do?

posted 7 years ago in Home
Post # 3
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2009

Yeah, that’s messed up. He’s married to you, not his mom. Sorry to say, but if he is on her side in this, then you have an uphill battle. You are his wife now, so you need to come first. You need to have a boundaries talk with him, nicely, not in confrontational way, or he won’t even want to talk with you

Post # 4
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

I can see this being a problem with us in the near future. His mother is ALWAYS trying to butt her head into everything. Yes, its really nice that shes offereing to pay for your appiances (which would probably help you guys out quite a bit), but I would feel majorly uncomfortable with it, im the type of girl that charishes experiences, so if he went out and baught everything without me, I would be devistated. I think you should just tell his mother how you feel! Maybe she will understand?

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