- 7 years ago
- Wedding: May 2013
i had to vent here because although it should slide off my shoulders, its really not… She is just so stupid.
Background real quick. Me and hubbie have been married now for going on 18 years, we are planning our Vow Renewal, total party, wedding celebration, etc… for our 20th anniversary.
Well, when we got married, no one said it was gonna last. I was a playah (yes, that was back in the day) and he was really shy, kind of a geek. I was outgoing and had alot of friends… he had a few friends. we were brought up on opposite sides of the tracks you could say… me from the wrong, him from the “right”. I had already been married once and had 2 kids. (married when i was 18, divorced by the time I was 19 etc…)
So anyhow, like 6 other coupls got married along this same timeline. So our wedding was put on the back burner, not that many people showed up (which was fine). They didn’t want to “waste their time” i guess…
Anyhow… So, comes now. I posted a facebook group because originally I was going to “Save the Date” because it was going to be on a cruise. I since however changed my mind. I want all the people we have met over the years, the family I am back in contact with, etc… to be there without having to worry about the hassle of passports and stuff. So the facebook page is still up, I created a wedding site, etc… All this early because, like I said, it was going to be a destination.
So, the other night my Mother-In-Law calls and invites us to her local watering hole and we go. And I told her “oh! did Shel (my sil) tell you? We are having a vow renewal”. She totally p-shawed me, thought it was stupid and said “I don’t know if I can make it, if I have to work”
I can’t help but think that if my husband married someone else, her attitude would be different. She has never liked me, but sheesh, you think after this long it would sink in, hey lady, i aint going anywhere… duh!
anyhow, I love the Bee:) I can vent and I do feel better.
OH AND PS… all those other couples (Including my sister in law)… divorced! she is happily remarried though so yay! But her husband at the time could do no wrong… george and rebecca – divorced, she too is happily remarried! yay!… David and Angela… Divorced, neither one remarried… I could go on, but you get what I mean.