(Closed) My MOH and best friend of 16 years is ignoring me. Completely.

posted 5 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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1781 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

I wrote a post very similar to this one… Engagements and marriage brings out people’s true personalitIes. Jealousy can be at an all time high. It can be hard for some to be happy for you because they are so envious of you; it’s not a good trait. She could also be having a hard time processing that you’re growing up into an adult.

 I’m going through this with both an ex friend of mine and my own sister (older, unmarried). I’m with you on this one!!! It stinks. My friend and I just had to cut our losses…. We don’t even speak anymore! 

Post # 4
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645 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

When you say you’ve deleted her from everything are you talking about, like, Facebook? I’m sorry but that seems immature and its really not going to help the situation. I understand you are angry with her but do you really want to throw away a friendship of 16 years? I think you need to try to discuss this issue with her. I know that’s hard since she’s seemingly ignoring your calls but I would try. 

Post # 5
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9648 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2019

@tallierand:  +1

OP, I completely understand you being upset, I would be too! Her reaction when you told her you got engaged is awful!!! And it sucks that she is so flaky! But from your post it seems like she is being flaky about wedding stuff, like going to your home town to go over plans. You know your Maid/Matron of Honor isn’t required to help plan the wedding right? She may not be happy about just talking about the wedding and want to get back to talking about normal stuff, like she was happy talking about her new boyfriend. Maybe try contacting her via Facebook again since she has been on there often.

Post # 7
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9648 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2019

@GirlWithTheGlassSlippers:  She probably is still interested in being there for you on the day, just may not have considered that there would be so much stuff before the wedding that she would need to do too, even if you did talk about it, she probably didn’t realise how time consuming it would really be.

Post # 9
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9648 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2019

@GirlWithTheGlassSlippers:  No worries, hopefully you can talk to her on Facebook chat or something 🙂

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