- 7 years ago
- Wedding: November 2011
This is more of a rant because there is no way to really change my situation but here goes………..
My sister is my Maid/Matron of Honor and along with my FH’s sister is the only person attending our actual wedding. We are doing the normal reception dinner/party however. When the idea of my bridal shower came up my sister said she would do it. She picked the place and picked the caterer with my help. Since she lives out of state she asked if I would do the deco I agreed (I know it’s the norm). So now that the invites went out and the RSVPs are due August 13th she has lost her mail box key. Unless she waits for the mail man she doesn’t get her mail the last 5 days she hasn’t gotten her flipping mail. Ugh so annoyed because I keep telling her to go to the post office and have them hold her mail until she replaces the lock but she just keeps not doing it. I’m the one paying for the food (once again just sort of happened that way) so I need the RSVP count by August 15th at the latest to tell caterer. My party is August 27th. So now to the thing that is bothering me the most. She for some reason decided to move this month. She put her 30 day notice at her apt August 1st so she has to be out Sept 1st. She still doesn’t have another apt so her life is consumed by apt searching. She informs me yesterday that she will be moving the day before my shower so she won’t be in to town until a few hours prior to the shower. With no other family really wanting to help that leaves me the BRIDE the set up the entire flipping shower the day before by myself. Um WTH just annoyed right now and depressed about my failure of a shower and Maid/Matron of Honor.