(Closed) My MOH is a Bridesmaid is Someone else's wedding and…

posted 8 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
2496 posts
Buzzing bee

@Meant2Bee:  It’s not your place to say anything. You should let your Maid/Matron of Honor handle it herself.

Post # 4
2564 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

You shouldn’t get involved, if your Maid/Matron of Honor is having a difficult time with another bride they need to deal with it themselves.

Post # 5
4766 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

You stay out of it.  Not your battle.  Support your Maid/Matron of Honor but def don’t get inbeteen this.  Just have yor Maid/Matron of Honor say they didn’t have her size and that she went to the store but no luck, what is the bride gonna do, rip her head off? make her walk down the aisl with a boob hanging out? “Fire” her?

Probably none of the above.  The girl prob thinks she found a good deal for the dresses and it wasn’t very well thought through so your Maid/Matron of Honor just needs to open her mouth.

Post # 6
9541 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2013

Absolutely do not contact this bride. This is so not your fight. I think your Maid/Matron of Honor needs to be honest with the bride that this dress won’t work for her because she simply can’t get it in her size. The bride probably thought she was being helpful but finding something 50% off. But I agree that you can’t do that without making sure a dress will work for your bridesmaids. I’m in the camp that when you sign up to be a bridesmaid you agree to maybe wear a color you don’t like a a style you wouldn’t pick for yourself. But you should never have to wear something that doesn’t fit or makes you uncomfortable.

Post # 7
307 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

Hmm I would stay out of it. Your Maid/Matron of Honor needs to just straight-out say the dress is already sold out in her size.

It is odd that she has decided on this dress without consulting anyone, without anyone trying it on… I assume this dress isn’t discontinued? Tough one!

Post # 8
1845 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

It’s not your place to say anything, and frankly what the other bride did (send a FB message letting her Bridal Party know they should get their dresses before the sale runs out) doesn’t sound too crazy to me.

Post # 9
3051 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: February 2015

It’s not really your place as a not as close friend to say anything.

Post # 10
2861 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

No, No and No. You do not involve yourself in this- your Maid/Matron of Honor is an adult and should pick up the phone. Also none of this sounds crazy. I don’t see the big deal?

Post # 11
1833 posts
Buzzing bee

Agree with everyone else.  it is not your place to get involved.  Your Maid/Matron of Honor needs to put her big girl panties on and have a chat with this bride.  I’m assuming they are friends are relatives if she is in the wedding so she needs to speak up.

If this bride is extremely demanding and unreasonable, maybe your Maid/Matron of Honor should just step down?

Post # 13
11736 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

It’s not your place to get involved. Your Maid/Matron of Honor needs to handle her own issues. 

Post # 14
3173 posts
Sugar bee

DON’T DO IT! It’s her wedding, not yours. Think about it. How would you feel if another bride came up to you and told you that you were doing everything all wrong. It is not your place.

Post # 15
152 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

Stay out of this one.  And honestly, all your Maid/Matron of Honor needs to do is talk to the other bride and let her know that they don’t have a dress in her size… that bride can figure out what to do since she just kinda sprung this on them without checking to make sure that the correct sizes were available.


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