- 5 years ago
- Wedding: July 2013
My Maid/Matron of Honor and I have been good friends through college so I would say we have probably been friends for a good 6-7 years. At first when I got engaged, she was super excited and was actually really cute about everything bc she was “claiming” her duties and making lists of things she wanted to do. It was cute. Well lately, she has been really snippy toward me. She dug herself a hole with this guy who was just using her (she said she was using him too but we all know how that works), so they were friends with benefits. Well, he told her he is about to propose to his gf (who he was with while being with my friend that my friend knew nothing about), and..the last couple guys she dated befoer, just recently got engaged to so she is feeling like a “good luck chuck” situation. So the other day she was texting me telling me how sick of it she is…I reassured her that God has a plan for her and maybe if she stopped focusing so much on finding someone that maybe someone would come along when she isnt expecting it and she snapped at me saying “you have been in a realtionship for years, what do you know about being single”…My defense is tha even when in a realtionship, you still struggle with things. Lord knows my relationship hasnt been perfect and she knows that so I dont know…
Ok, I get it…but if your gonna throw yourself at these guys, put yourself in situations of guys “using” you, dont snap at me when you come to me for advice.
Also, she has been like a crazy girl all she talks about is being skinny. Seriously, every sentence that comes out of her mouth is her talking about how she needs to lose weight, how she wants to be anorexic looking for my wedding, how she needs to eat better, how she needs to go to the gym…she has even gone to telling me “Oh well, I’m eating brocooli, you got fries, we know who cares about their weight”…I mean yeah, I’m about 20lbs heavier than I want to be but to be honest, I wasnt planning on losing a ton of weight for my wedding. But her comments seem to be aimed at me indirectly like she is telling me I need to lose weight by making me feel guilt about how she works out. She is like 110lbs and constantly complaing about how fat she is, I weight about 140 and I’m 5’5 (I usually weigh 120)…I was fine in my own skin but her constant comments really are starting to get to me to the point where its not fun to hang out with her. We like to get dinner and its not fun anymore when someone skinnier than you is basically calling you a fat a** bc all she does is call herself one. Does that make sense?
Also, at the store the other day, she was snipping at me telling me to pick something up that I dropped. Finally, I got so fed up with it I snapped back and said, “I was going to pick it up, sorry I just wasnt fast enough bending over for you”. Its like every comment out of her mouth is something snippy.I love her, dont get me wrong, but something is up her butt these days.
Anyway, I guess this is a little rant I had to get out. Sorry.