(Closed) My MOH is out of control!

posted 6 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
1375 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I’m so sorry.  She should NOT be putting you in the middle.  That is super inappropriate.

I suggest at this point, the next time she emails you say something like “I’m so happy you’re doing this for me but I feel uncomfortable knowing the financial details and who is contributing what.  I think it is better for our relationship and that between me and the other participants that you just leave me out of the loop.”

If that doesn’t work, maybe have your Fiance screen the emails and give you the need to know details.

Post # 4
1141 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

This seems like it’s the flaky friends fault and not the maid of honors. There are times when people just don’t respond, what would you suggest she do. Your the one who asked these girls and she is far away. Maybe you could send an email to the girls saying if they don’t or can’t go please just let your moh know by this date. If no response by that date their out. I don’t think it’s her fault, seems like her hands are tied and she needs you to decide what she should do.

Post # 6
2009 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

@futuremrsfitz18:  Agree.

I think everyone is a bit to blame here but I hate that some of the fun is being taken away!!

Try and gently tell her you don’t want to know its stressful for her and then bow out of the conversations regarding the party.

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