(Closed) My MOH is terrible to me.

posted 7 years ago in Etiquette
  • poll: Am I at liberty to change my MOH considering the circumstances here?
    Yes : (91 votes)
    83 %
    No : (18 votes)
    17 %
  • Post # 47
    Member
    1639 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: November 2013

    @Zellywelly:  Sounds like you’re resolved in it then. Good for you. I hope that it doesn’t cause too much drama for you and that your day is wonderful and magical. 🙂 Good luck!

    Post # 48
    Member
    719 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    Once someone puts their hands on you in a violent way, that’s it, family or not.

    I’m sorry you have to deal with this, but regardless of some shared DNA, no one has the right to abuse you in any way.

    Post # 49
    Member
    468 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: November 2013

    @Zellywelly:  If I were you, I’d remove her as Maid/Matron of Honor. Have her as a bridesmaid but don’t count on her. Let your other bridesmaids plan with or without her. This is your day and the last thing you want is to think back and remember the sour attitude of  your Maid/Matron of Honor. When I had my high school graduation party (Not as big of a deal or important as a wedding), the ONLY thing I remember was how my (ex)boyfriend acted toward me all night. He was mean, selfish, and jealous that I was getting attention and not him. That is the ONLY thing I remember. Not the speech my father made, not the fact that all of my friends and family showed up for me, not the fact that I had just closed a chapter of my life – just the way he made me feel. Don’t do that to yourself. Your moment is worth too much to let someone change your perspective on the day. I’m so sorry you’re having to deal with this. I don’t have any sisters or brothers but I can imagine it is painful to have that reaction (or lack of) when you ask someone to do you the honor of being your Maid/Matron of Honor. Good luck! 🙂

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