(Closed) My MOH is under 21….any Bachelorette party ideas?

posted 9 years ago in Parties
Post # 3
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2012

Does she drink? 

When Future Sister-In-Law got married, a few of us were under 21 but still drinkers. We rented a hotel room for the night, got her all kinds of raunchy gifts, and just partied that way. It wasn’t as fun as bar-hopping, but still fun!

Post # 4
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

I’m kind of in the same boat-one of my BMs is 16 so I don’t want to do anything that will exclude her. You could do some kind of spa night or movie night? I have no idea what I’ll be doing.

Post # 5
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2009

I like lilyfaith‘s idea.  None of my BM’s are under 21, but my FH’s brother is.  For his bachelor party they are doing a hockey game, and then a friend is hosting a party afterward.  Maybe you could do a lingerie party?  That would be fun.

Post # 6
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2009 - Barr Mansion

Fake ID.  Haha, j/k.

Post # 7
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Bumble bee

glow bowling?

Post # 8
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

Spa day!

Post # 9
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2009

My little sister’s 21st birthday was a week after the wedding so we also had to plan accordingly.  We went to a restaurant/pub and hung out there for awhile (those of us who wanted to start drinking did so) and then went out to 21+ places after that.  I felt bad leaving her at 10 or so but she said she didn’t mind at all.  I think it helped that people took different cars, and some had to go home, so it didn’t feel like she was the baby quite so much.  Instead it just looked like people were going their own ways. 

Post # 10
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

I like spa day! And a “girl” party is always fun!!! You can have drink then, just at home, and still have a good time. I’m in the same situation. One of my Bridesmaid or Best Man is 17, so I’m trying to plan accordingly too!

Post # 11
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2009

Well, the real question is whether or not your sister drinks or not. If she does, then I have a couple recommendations (don’t know the area you live in, this is what’s available near me):

– renting a room at a casino: access to hot tubs, restaurants, and more importantly the bar in your room. Since she’s over 18 she can be out on the casino floor, she just can’t be drinking. Just a note though, not all casinos are 18+ and not all casinos allow alcohol so check those things first.

– a night out at the 18+ clubs

–  a twist on her idea: dinner and drinks at a bar and grill, followed by girl time back at either a hotel room or someone’s places, and then the 21+ people can go to the bars if you’d like

Post # 12
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: February 2010

i just went to a painting pottery place during a bachelorette party, some of them have girls nights and provide drinks or allow you to bring your own drinks and snacks.

Post # 14
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 1969

How about a “sleepover” type thing where you guys watch girly movies and drink cosmos until the sun comes up??  You could even have it at a swanky hotel or something …

Post # 15
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2009

I don’t drink and I’m not real big on dance clubs, etc.  so we had late night belly dancing lessons. They hired a lady after hours to meet us at her studio and we could bring food and drinks (including alcohol for the one girl that wanted it). It was really fun!

Post # 16
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

I’m another fan of the late night bowling… Like the disco bowling or whatever it is your particular bowling alley offers from like 9-1 on Friday or Saturday nights.. Its a good opportunity to listen to music, goof around, and have some fun with or without alcohol… Anyone that wants to can drink before hand at dinner which should also lead to some extra bowling fun 🙂

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