(Closed) My MOH not going to my bachelorette party! Ugh!

posted 11 years ago in Parties
Post # 3
984 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2010

I can understand your frustration and by the sounds of it she’s not being completely fair to you, but I will say if it was my sister’s 21st I wouldn’t want to miss it. As for the fast track, are you sure that she fast tracked or was she waiting for a specific date/venue to open up? How else is she being difficult? From your post I don’t really know what else has happened to make you say she’s being difficult, so it’s hard to have a good perspective. I can’t say that you are overreacting, but I don’t think you should be too hard on her when she has her sister’s 21st that weekend. If she was just missing it to miss it or had some lame excuse, I think you’d have a right to be perturbed, it’s understandable you’re upset she’s going to miss it, but cut her a little slack for this at least.

Post # 5
203 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2020

RE: the video contribution WOW. I’d say her sister’s 21st is a legit excuse for missing out but that other stuff I’d be annoyed

Post # 6
883 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2009

If it makes you feel any better, I had a bridesmaid come to the lingerie shower being thrown for me for about 45 minutes before going home to “shower and change” for the bachelorette party.  She went home and called me to say she was just too tired, and didn’t want to go with us because I couldnt promise her that we would only go to smoke free bars. (Most of the bars are now, and none of us smoke, but since I wasnt planning this shindig, I didnt know where we were going.)  I love that girl to death but when she gets married, I better be getting a long ass apology letter of the “I’m sorry, I just didnt ‘get it’ then!”.  grrr.

Anyway, just know that you arent the only one and friends arent perfect, but they are still important to us.

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