(Closed) My MOH told me she’s supposed to choose the BM’s dresses. Huh?

posted 8 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

haha she’s crazy. first of all, she “appointed herself” moh? second, she’s making things up just because she wants to pick out her own dress.

Post # 4
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

HAHAHAHAHA. That’s great.

Uhhhhmmm. NO!

Post # 6
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: February 2010

No I’ve never heard of that. I’ve had brides pick out their favorite dresses and let bridesmaids vote, but the bride should always have the last say in it.

Post # 7
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

I am going to let my girls have some imput in the dress, because after all they are the ones who have to wear it, but I am not letting them pick the exact one.

Post # 8
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2011

My bridesmaids picked out their dresses.  I take it that isn’t commonplace?

Post # 10
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

LOL…yeah…she’s making that up. The Maid/Matron of Honor definitely doesn’t get to decide on the dress for all the BMs. It was a good one though Laughing

My BMs each chose their own style from DB in the color I specified. 

Post # 11
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

I picked out all my bm’s and moh’s dresses. And I paid for them and ordered them. Some of them haven’t even seen what they look like, but I didn’t want them all arguing or whatever so I’m just handing them the dresses and saying here this is what you’re wearing!

Post # 13
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

I was going to let my girls pick their dress (I gave them color/length though), but they freaked that there wasn’t enough direction and they didn’t want to get the wrong thing. So I just picked it for them…

Definitely give her a star for trying though.

Post # 14
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Bumble Beekeeper

@SoontobeMrsA: Just tell her the times they are achangin’ and if she doesn’t like it … she doesn’t have to be Maid/Matron of Honor.

Post # 15
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2011

THat would be a negative dahling.  🙂  Sounds funny and she even explained it well, but nope – can’t say I’ve ever heard that before. 

Post # 16
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Sugar bee

No I have never heard of that. I would also be careful since clearly she has ginormous balls when it comes to speaking her mind and I would be nervous she’ll steamroll your other bridesmaids into wearing what she thinks they should all be wearing.

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