My moissanite ring came! Is it too big?

posted 2 years ago in Rings
  • poll: 2ct on my size 4 finger

    Too small


    Too big

  • Post # 31
    1428 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2005 - A Castle

    Predictable thread is predictable. 

    OP, your ring is beautiful and I think it looks lovely on your hand. Give it some time to get used to it. 

    Post # 32
    141 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: April 2014

    Big stones are more common nowadays! I wear a 1.9 ct round diamond in a delicate halo and I’m a size 3.75. I like the look and although it stands out I’ve never gotten weird stares or questions. Wear what YOU love. Life is too short. If it was a 3-4 ct that gets in the very big category for me and can look like too much. 

    Post # 33
    5765 posts
    Bee Keeper

    its perfect, leave it alone!

    Post # 34
    2359 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: August 2018

    If no one cares about rings IRL why is it inappropriate for OP to wear her larger ring shopping? Why will people judge her if no one cares about her ring?

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    winterwhite :  

    Post # 35
    5120 posts
    Bee Keeper

    winterwhite :  Oh I totally agree with you regarding people not noticing rings when you’re out and about. I don’t waste one brain cell on worrying about what others think of my jewelry because the majority just don’t care. And I guess small hands and fingers could be considered bragging under the same rule that if I said I was small and wear smaller clothing sizes I’m accused of bragging. I tend to discount things like this because people look how they look.

    Post # 37
    1027 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: May 1999

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    nivyx :  I thik your ring is perfect! Lovely design and I wish I had your beautiful hands! 🙂

    Post # 38
    228 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: June 2021

    The ring is beautiful, but main stone size detracts a little bit from the setting details (in my opinion). I voted too big.

    Post # 39
    42 posts

    No such thing as too big! Enjoy your new ring!

    Post # 40
    460 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: October 2019

    Gorgeous and perfect on your finger!

    Post # 41
    7194 posts
    Busy Beekeeper
    • Wedding: September 2016

    Your ring is beautiful and I really like the unique leaf/petal accents on the side of the setting. Also, your nail polish is gorgeous!

    Give yourself time to get used to your ring size and then see how you feel. No one’s opinion (on this board or out in public, whether supportive or not) should matter as much as your own. Do you like it? Does it give you the finger coverage you wanted? There will be detractors no matter what size ring (or finger) you have. Do you really want to make any choices in your life based on what they might be thinking?

    Two other things:

    1- there are Bees who have posted about feeling that their diamonds are too large and wanting to go down in size to better suit themselves, so diamond or moissy or gemstone shouldn’t really have a lot of bearing on what your sweet spot is in terms of finger coverage.

    2- There was a woman at the grocery store yesterday who was wearing a huge emerald ring. I was far away and couldn’t see many details, but it was a white stone that could have been diamond (or something else) and it was a nice distraction to admire it while she moved around paying for her items and retrieving her bags.

    Do your thing. Don’t ask other people to give you permission to love what you love.

    Post # 42
    1694 posts
    Bumble bee

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    nivyx :  The size is fine as long as it’s comfortable for you and your lifestyle. If it helps, it doesn’t look like a diamond.

    Post # 43
    1468 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2021

    It’s beautiful (but since you asked) it is too big for me, but I don’t live somewhere where 2ct stones are the norm. My 0.75ct is considered large here, so a 2ct would be huge, if it was a diamond I would be concerned about the risk of wearing such a large valuable stone out and about. 

    Post # 44
    1410 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: USA

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    nivyx :  It’s definitely big but I am so into it. Beautiful ring!! 

    Post # 45
    1245 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: May 2015

    I really like it on you. I also didn’t get a sense of humblebrag from the post, so maybe I’m missing something. 

    Anyways, I’m a fan of larger stones. I just like pretty, sparkly objects, hehe 

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