Post # 1
and the last thing I said to her was something along the lines of “Mom! How could you do this? This is not the wedding that I imagined! Why did you change everything we agreed on!”
So this past week especially there has been tension between us regarding the wedding details. I have been engaged for 3 years and had a clear picture of what I wanted which was a bit untraditional for my mom. Since it’s a Destination Wedding (halfway acorss the world where my parents live) and my parents are covering it my mom has been the middle person with the vendors and has been adding/changing things based on her opinion.
The most recent argument (yesterday) was when I found out that she booked the venue from 4 pm to 9 pm…but what I origianally had in mind was a lunch/afternoon tea reception so we were arguing. Then I said something nasty, I told her that nothing was going as planned and complained that she kept changing things…
12 hours later she got a heart attack at work. She’s a doctor so luckily she was in the hospital when it happened. She’s been in the ICU since and I’m not allowed to speak to her on the phone.
My Dad is not possitive of the situation, all he told me was we can only wait and see.
I feel so sad, and regretful that I’ve been such a brat and saying mean things to her over this stupid wedding and details. I just want her to get better:(
Post # 3
Awww…hugs. We all want her to get better too. Sending good wishes your way.
Post # 4
Hugs! And don’t feel guilty. You had a normal pre-wedding conversation that many brides have with their moms. She loves you and you love her that’s all that matters.
Post # 5
I agree, don’t feel guilty! Sending lots of positive thoughts and prayers to you and your Mom, I hope she gets better soon!
Post # 6
Thank you for your kind words. I’m just so sad when I heard there’s a chance she might not make it.
Yesterday I felt like it was the end of the world when the reception time got pushed to 4 pm and my lunch/tea party turned into dinner. It’s so silly, as now I realize how small it was!
Post # 7
Thinking and praying for her… but do not feel guilty. Your mother knows you love her! *hugs*
Post # 8
I hope she gets better soon! Don’t worry about the conversation you had, it’s not your fault!
Post # 9
Oh my gosh. You poor thing. Praying for you. And don’t worry…your mama knows you love her!
Post # 10
*hugs* Sending good vibes your way.
I’m sorry to hear about your mom. I agree with the other Bees, you shouldn’t feel guilty about having that conversation with your mom. Easier said than done I know.
Post # 11
Oh my goodness I am so sorry.
I agree with everyone else, don’t feel guilty. We all have those types of calls with our moms at some point. She knows you love her and she obviously loves you so much too since she’s a huge part in your wedding planning.
*hugs* I hope she gets better soon!!
Post # 12
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I’m so sorry to hear this. I hope she has a speedy recovery!
Post # 13
Your mom knows you love her. You and your mom and family are in my prayers. Forgive yourself. (((Hugs)))
Post # 14
I’m sooo sorrry! I hope she has a full and speedy recovery! And don’t feel guilty she’s your mom and everyone has tiffs with their mom like that it’s what makes them love us even more!
Again I hope she gets better soon!
Post # 15
So sorry to hear that Ms.Scarlet, I wish your mom a speedy recovery and hope you do get to talk to her soon.
Post # 16
I’m so sorry, my thoughts and sympathy are with you and your family!