(Closed) My mother is a p.i.t.a., help with this please…

posted 8 years ago in Beauty
Post # 3
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181 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

if she is not coopertive, is there somewhere else you can stay? bm’s home or hotel?

just tell her that you decided having someone come to you is the ONLY way for it to work out and you dont want to make her uncomfertable with a stranger in the house so you are staying elsewhere.

we will definitly be having someone come to us for makeup and hair. that way the girls that arent being worked on can work on other morning-of stuff instead of sitting around. (or sleep later if everything is done already) taking unnessesary trips anywhere that day is not worth it.

stand your ground and nip this must-get-it-her-way attitude in the bud.

GL Hope This Helps

Post # 4
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738 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

Ugh, I feel your pain. My Mother is much the same.

Can you try talking rationally with your mother about it being your one and only wedding day and stating the pros of the stylists coming to her house & the cons of having to go to the salon? There’s no point in trying to talk rational with my mom, though, she’s sooo selfish and self-centered. I’m just trying to imagine what I’d say to my Mom if I were in your situation.

I’m getting married in th city my Mom lives in but I’m planning on renting a hotel room with my BMs the night before the wedding so I dont have to deal with my Mom on whats supposed to be the happiest day of my life!

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