(Closed) am i wrong to be upset?

posted 4 years ago in Family
Post # 3
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3028 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2014 - Prague

Maybe she needs you to spell this out for her! Just ask her if she’s thought through the timing?

Post # 5
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3028 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2014 - Prague

That’s a shame. 🙁

Still, I’d put it down to her spaciness or whatever you call it. It’s not about not wanting to spend time with you.

Post # 6
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6906 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2014

It could be she picked those flight times due to price. I know sometimes a morning flight is a couple hundred dollars more than a midday one, or going home a day earlier or later can save you big amounts of money.

Post # 7
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: February 2017 - Seattle, WA

@MsGinkgo:  I’m confused… If she’s not leaving until Monday at 4pm, couldn’t she visit her dad Sunday or early Monday morning?  And then still have all day Friday to help with wedding stuff?  I guess I don’t see the conflict?  Maybe I misread.

 

Post # 9
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2015

@MsGinkgo:  Maybe offer to pay the change fee on her ticket so she can come earlier? It’s usually not that much – although it depends on the airline.

Post # 10
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: February 2017 - Seattle, WA

@MsGinkgo:  Ah, that makes more sense.  Yeah she probably honestly didn’t realize how much help you need in the days leading up to the wedding.  That is a bummer!  But at least she’ll be there for 4-5 days!

Post # 11
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2014

that sucks, sometimes moms don’t really get that we want them even though we’re grown adults, getting married, etc. At least you will have her on Friday – hopefully she can wait until Sunday after the brunch to go visit her dad?

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