Post # 1
hi bees, please forgive any grammatical mistakes. My mother passed away last night, and I’m in shock, I literally spoken to her just a few hours prior. I want to cry, but I can’t and I don’t know how. She’s had numerous health issues over the years but she always bounced back. I’m in the process of flying back, I had to drive 5 hours away just to find a nonstop flight. I don’t think I can handle this, I was just home last Friday and she was recuperating. My husband also just left on deployment, so I’m trying to get him flown back from Asia, flight quotes one way are like 4grand. I’m only 23, and my siblings are only 20 and 18. My sister, the 20 year old has been so strong, she’s been the one doing everything. My dad is breaking down, they would’ve been married for 30 years this October. I just can’t fathom this, at all. My mother will never see my siblings graduate college, or grandkids through my husband and I. I just don’t know what to do. I’m happy she’s not hurting anymore, but I am selfish for my family ; we need her, she’s held our family together. I just don’t know what to do.
Post # 3
(((HUGS))) I’m so sorry for your loss. I can’t imagine how that must feel.
Post # 4
I’m so very sorry for your loss. I don’t know what to say. Just love and hugs xx
Post # 5
I’m so sorry to hear this, sweetheart. I hope that you and your family find peace and strength through what I know is the most difficult kind of pain anyone can experience. You all will be in my thoughts.
Post # 6
I’m sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time.
Post # 7
I am so sorry for your loss.
Post # 8
(hugs) im sorry for your loss
Post # 10
@NaijaPuertoDorian: I’m so, so sorry for your loss. Keep your support system around you in the coming days and weeks and you’ll all make it through together. xo
Post # 11
@NaijaPuertoDorian: I really don’t have any advice for you, so wanted to tell you how deeply sorry I am. Sick or not, losing someone so close is never easy and even when you think you are prepared you are not. My cousins lost their mother a year ago, they were super close and it was incredibly tough on them. They have gone through some tough times but luckily they have each other and family to help ease some of the pain. Each day for them is a struggle, but knowing she is no longer in pain and is watching over them brings some comfort. Things like this take time to settle in and in time you will be able to release your tears, but for now just be with your family and take comfort in each other. *hugs!*
Post # 12
I’m so so sorry for your loss.
Post # 13
thank you all for your sentiments. I just don’t understand why I can’t cry. I an an incredibly easy crier but I havent yet. I feel like a piece of shit for not crying for my mommy.
Post # 14
@NaijaPuertoDorian: Its perfectly normal to feel a little selfish and want her back, but understand that she wont have really left you and will always be a part of you. Remember all of the good times and use that to keep you going. Big Hugs and I’m sorry for your loss
Post # 15
I’m so sorry for your loss!
Post # 16
Oh my goodness, I’m so sorry for your loss. You and your family will be in my thoughts.