My niece who nearly died after having her baby, her spouse left her

posted 2 months ago in Relationships
Post # 2
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2017

What a disgusting human being. I am so glad that he didn’t end up hurting her or the baby. I hope he stays out of their lives permanently now and he gives up all rights to his daughter. Him leaving for good is absolutely the best thing for them.

Sending hugs to you and your family bee, they are very lucky to have you in their lives. 

Post # 3
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Bumble bee

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princessanon0125 :  

I’m sorry for her rough journey but I’m so glad she has her family to get her through.  I’m also very relieved that the truth has finally come to light and that she is not being fooled by that wretch.  I hope that with family support and counseling that she’ll pull through this and find joy grow in her life.  I hope this guy doesn’t push for visitation.  Did she press charges for assault?  He was throwing things at her and the baby…  That will matter down the road if he pulls a custody stunt.  

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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: City, State

He’s actual human scum and I hope he gets a case of the itchy dick that no medicine or cream can cure.

Your poor niece.

Post # 6
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Bumble bee

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princessanon0125 :  

Video evidence!  Genius!  Good for her!  Get that footage backed up triple time.

Post # 7
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: Malibou Lake Mountain Club

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princessanon0125 :  im glad she has someone like you around. that body isnt even human; hes dreadful! 

Post # 8
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Busy Beekeeper

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princessanon0125 :  I’m sorry she is hurting but I’m not sorry to learn that the trash took itself out. It’s the best for her and her baby. I hope they can get her hormones stabilized soon and therapy helps her to realize that she can have a wonderful life with her daughter and that, when she is ready, there are people who don’t care about having bio children (or may already have their own). Hugs to you and your family. She is fortunate to have a strong and loving network of support. 

Post # 9
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Helper bee

Wow…. I am truly disgusted by this man. I am so sorry for what your niece must be going through! I agree with PP, use that video down the line if needed!

Post # 10
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2017 - City, State

I’m horrified that he could be such a monster. She is so lucky to have all of you in her life to help her get through all of this. It’s just so heartbreaking that she’s had to face so many hardships back to back. 

I honestly hope that at some point he’s just willing to sign away his rights so she never has to have anything to do with him or his family (how could they tolerate him behaving this way?) ever again.

Post # 11
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: City, State

I’m glad she isn’t stuck quarantined with this POS.  What an asshole!

Post # 12
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 1985

Unbelievable!  Some people really do just suck!  I’m so glad you are all there for her!  Hugs!

Post # 13
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: February 1997

I’m actually relieved he left. Everyone knew he was a cheating douche canoe before who didn’t care about her or the baby. No sense prolonging the inevitable (getting him out of her life).

And FWIW, I have several friends who have lost husbands either through death or divorce, and they have remarried with no plans for more children. A woman’s worth is NOT in her reproductive capability, and plenty of good men know this. 

Post # 14
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Busy bee

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princessanon0125 :  Hopefully this guys selfish attitude causes him to stay out of his child’s life PERMANANTLY,  because that’s the one good thing about this, mother and baby won’t have to spend a lifetime putting up with this pos. And she will be able to find someone, as hard as that is to believe right now, there are good men who have children who wouldn’t be out of by this, if she wants someone family orientated. And those willing to adopt too.

Post # 15
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Busy bee

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princessanon0125 :  

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slomotion :  let him go off on his grand quest to sire a male heir, a majestic boy truly worthy of inheriting all his….oh wait.

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