- 6 years ago
- Wedding: April 2013
So last week my parents split up after being together 26year, married for almost 24yrs. I knew they were having problems but I thought they would get through it. Dad just packed his bags and left. They are still talk because I have younger brothers and sisters.
I am the oldest girl, I have an older brother and then I have three younger sisters and two younger brothers. The youngest being 6yrs.
My dad is sleeping in his office at his work. He owns his on buisness. My Fiance and I are trying to get him to come stay with us but he wont. He is stubborn and I guess a bit embarrassed. But at least he would have a bed to sleep in and a shower if he came to ours. He is such a mess, but he is trying to win mum back. He has started going to concerling and sending her flowers etc. She is just not ready for that, to be honest I dont think she wants to make it work. I can understand why, he has put her though so much. But Im just so worried about how he will cope if they make it offical. We went to see him the other day, I have been making him dinner and taking it to him. He was crying and said if they are not back together by our wedding he wont be coming. Our wedding is five weeks away.
That has just broken my heart, knowing that my Dad doesnt want to be there on the most important day of my life, he and mum were going to walk me down the aisle.I am just realy hoping that he was just upset and it was his emotions talking.
I am trying to be there for both parents and all my siblings they are all talking to me about it. Its so sad, how do I try to be there for everyone? What can I do to help them through this heartbreaking time?