(Closed) My partners sister engagement?

posted 10 years ago in Family
Post # 3
329 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: January 2011

What a tricky situation cuz its not your own sibling.

I think depending on the relationship u have with J u can talk to her and probably guide her without full on coming out and saying that she is being used. Maybe your talk will enlighten her to think about it like that for herself.

Good Luck!

Post # 4
2588 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: February 2014

My advice: Don’t get involved. You can try to mention something to J, but since you’ve established that she’s unwilling to listen, don’t expect it to end particularly well. The plus side, I guess, would be that she was warned. But you need to look at your own biases, too. Are you feeling this way because you disapprove of quick engagements?

And please stop judging those of us who’ve gotten engaged after a short period of time. FH and I got engaged after four months, but we’ve been together, problem-free, for 2 1/2 years now. Not every quick engagement ends “in a mess.”

Post # 5
13562 posts
Honey Beekeeper

I know you mean well, but I’d keep my mouth shut. It’s great that you have such care and concern for your partner’s sister, but it really just is not your place to bring up such a hot-button topic.

What does your partner think?

Post # 6
13562 posts
Honey Beekeeper

P.S. Welcome to WedddingBee!

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