(Closed) My past is tearing us apart…

posted 9 years ago in Emotional
Post # 362
2868 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

Wow… that rap sheet is no joke.  You are in major denial.  My fiance has a past but not a present like that.  Also, I’d take that link with all his personal information off of a public forum.

Post # 363
5145 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: January 2010

Well, I guess I was right about there being assault charges.

You are delusional and naive if you think that rap sheet is evidence of just him taking it a little too far. This is not a “stuff happens” situation. He made choices. “Stuff happens” does not explain aggravated assault, threats, theft, reckless endangerment. No wonder he is sitting in jail. 

His mother is his mother. Her being a doctor has zip to do with whether you should be with him or not. Of course she wants to see the best in him but you are incredibly naive if you think this is a “good guy”. This is not a test of your relationship, this is an opportunity for you to get the heck out of there!

He is controlling, jealous, possessive, violent, dishonest, impulsive, immature, and so on. It is is sad you really believe it is good to stay. Your own judgment is very questionable so I am not sure why you trust it. You are taking a highly dysfunctional and toxic relationship and trying to spin it into a romantic fantasy.

Post # 364
3884 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

This guy is bad news. If you don’t want to pop out 3 or 4 babies one right after the other then have to raise them on whatever salary you can get without much of a career path, and do it alone, and spend your day off every week at visiting hours, I suggest you move on. This “prince charming” is going to be in and out of jail and prison for the rest of his life. 

I just cannot fathom how any self-respecting young woman would sign on for that.

Post # 365
5294 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: January 1993

This guy is a complete loser. He’s going to be in and out of jail for the rest of his life just like fishbone said. You’re so young and you’re going to throw away your life on some douche who will quite possibly end up being your murderer. I only hope you’ll figure that out before it’s too late. 

While you may trust your judgement, I don’t – it’s an incredibly poor choice to put someone’s personal information on the internet like that. Yes, it’s public record, but no one here knew his name. And I don’t think it did anything but convince everyone reading that that guy is bad news. 

For the love of God, do not bring children into this situation. 

Post # 366
23585 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2011

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