(Closed) My personal wedding-related hell…

posted 12 years ago in Waiting
Post # 18
202 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

Ouch! I see how that could be really irritating. :/ Oh well, just do it BETTER!!



Post # 19
196 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

Yikes, that is really hard!!  But keep focusing on your new “dream” wedding.  At least you’ll have the opportunity to check out all the stuff you imagined in person, and see if it really works or not!  You’ll probably have way more insight when it comes time to plan yours…  ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 20
2181 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: January 2011 - Vintage Villas

๐Ÿ™ I’m sorry! Don’t worry too much – you will find tons of ways to make your wedding completely personalized when you do get married!!!

Post # 21
2767 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Aw, I’m sorry. I had a bit of a hard time with it when Future Sister-In-Law and Future Brother-In-Law were planning. R and I started dating before them, but we’re younger so they got married before us. It just so happened that everything I liked at the time decor-wise, Future Sister-In-Law picked. 

Honestly, though, my tastes have changed in the years since then, and I had a wonderful time being involved with her wedding. It was hard to deal with some of the little things, but by the time the wedding weekend rolled around I had forgotten all about them. Now it’s our turn!

Post # 22
44 posts

I’m sorry. Thats just aweful and not really being able to do anything about it makes it worse. Atleast you’ll be able to see the outcome of her wedding and be able to perfect yours.



Post # 23
3579 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

That sucks!

But on a positive note – this could be your ‘practice’ dream wedding. Anything that doesn’t look right or go right you can do better;-)

And on another note – Before I was engaged I had all these ideas of what I was going to have and some of it is the same but a lot has changed! So I am sure some things will change and your wedding will be YOUR DREAM WEDDING when your day comes!

Post # 24
6980 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: February 2011

oh my gosh that would drive me CRAZY. I’m so sorry ๐Ÿ™ it does suck worse when it is unintentional because you feel like you can’t even be mad about it (you can, by the way, just privately). ((Hugs))

Post # 25
2836 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

Lilybee: This is the same thing that Kim Kardashian said about Khloe’s wedding. “I’m afraid the day will get here and they’ll get to the part where they ask for objections and I’ll finally just snap and start shouting “This was suppose to be MY wedding!!!”    (Tust me I would be feeling the same way.)

I can’t blame you for being upset. I guess now you should focus your energy on finding something new. Maybe change the theme or do a different variation of what you orginally wanted to do. I have an older cousin who is getting married next year and she is using one of the unquie favors that I wanted to use. So I just thought of something else. I know that a wedding favor is not the same as an entire wedding, but I was a bit disappointed.

It will work out okay for you, and you may find that you like your new ideas even better.

Good luck!

Post # 26
172 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

That totally sucks! I had to make agreements with my SO’s twin sister sophomore year of college. They are twins and we have been friends forever so we figured we’d hash it out before resenting each other! Just think of this wedding as ideas and you can have more time to figure out greater ideas. My SO’s sister got married first last spring and I’m actually excited because I get to go second….. which means I’ve already seen all that she has done…. there is always going to be a little competition. good luck!

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