My photos and my mil

posted 2 years ago in Family
Post # 16
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2014 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2018

boogiewoogies :  Yes, NC is No contact. 

 

This is weird. Very weird.

Post # 17
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56 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: September 2017

This sounds really weird.  I agree it seems like a catfishing situation.

Post # 18
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6442 posts
Bee Keeper

smartsimple :  WEIRD AS SHIT.  Delete the photos every single one and make sure they are removed from her computer, any other devices she could be using.  And then block her from all forms of social media.

Post # 19
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1183 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2017

WTF?!!? This is beyond bizarre. I agree with those who said you should delete them, make sure she doesn’t have them backed up to the cloud somewhere and then have your SO confront her.

Post # 20
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9432 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2012

Try reverse image searching some of them…

Post # 21
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206 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2016

Warning…….. you no longer have any rights/ownership or recompense of any image once loaded to social media.  Deleting anything from someone else’s computer falls under most state’s laws of theft and vandalism.  Her computer is her property and you would really be putting yourself in jeopardy to tamper with it.  Since your husband is already no contact and you have already set your privacy settings on the social media site to limit her access, there’s nothing more to be done.  

PS…………..all she has to do is create another email though and she can get to your photos on facebook even if she isn’t a “friend”.  

Post # 22
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

smartsimple :  If you also have any of those photos you can do a reverse image search using tineye  https://www.tineye.com/  to see where any of your images might be.  

Post # 23
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1135 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2018 - Fremont, CA

I would do some serious reverse google image search work to see if some of those pictures show up…

Post # 24
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75 posts
Worker bee

That’s some catfishing BS weirdness going on, I’m sorry. Nip that right in the bud. 

Post # 25
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2333 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: January 2015

Ask her?

Post # 27
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6167 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2016

Definitely not overreacting. I’d also let her know that you find her behavior strange the next time she’s trying to get a photo of you. Just so that she’s on notice.

Post # 28
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55 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: September 2017

Not overreacting at all….that is so bizarre. I can’t wrap my head around it.

Post # 29
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2 posts
Wannabee

smartsimple :  delete her!! Shes obviously up to something. Its sad that you feel like this to your Future Mother-In-Law but it doesnt  mean you girls have to be close and be friends on social media. 

Post # 30
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3379 posts
Sugar bee

This is weird – I don’t even know what to say.

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