My secret’s out!

posted 7 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
5427 posts
Bee Keeper

I didn’t know weddingbee had to be a secret! My Fiance knows about this site a long time ago…

Post # 4
60 posts
Worker bee

@ukpussycat:  I am so glad for you too! Yes, my SO knows about me being on this website as well. At first I was embarassed about having joined but I wanted to read it all the time (like even on my phone in the car! lol). So he asked me what I was doing one day, and so I told him. I even told him about the wating list. I think it kind of interested him and he asked me all about it, and pretty much did the same thing, kind of chuckled and told me he loved me. For most guys that aren’t terrified of getting married, I think they think it’s pretty cute πŸ™‚


Post # 5
1402 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

My SO knows about it, too, and he just laughed.  He knows about my pinterest wedding board, too – and I’ve made sure to point him towards the engagement ring board.  πŸ˜‰

Post # 6
331 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

haha aww thats too cute, my Fiance knows im on this site and he just laughs that i post alot of things here.

Post # 7
3729 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: City, State

Yep– before we were engaged. He was confused why I was on the site and then wondered if because I was on the site I got enough of my wedding fill and he got out of watching “Say Yes to the Dress”. He was disappointed that our Friday night show didn’t change.

The day we got engaged he was like “I guess you’re going to go spend a couple of hours on weddingbee now. I’ll be reading in the room”. He was cool with it.

Post # 8
1868 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

I think I would keep it secret if I were waiting as well. I know guys can get a little freaked out and you dont want to make them feel anymore pressure than they already do. I am glad that you have been found out lol. No you can post a lot of your own posts πŸ™‚

Post # 9
4693 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

Haha I don’t even remember how it came up, but he knew about it a looong time ago!  I was so excited when Taylor4 passed the torch as list keeper to me that I went and woke him up to tell him!! I have no shame. Wink

Post # 11
925 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

I kept it a secret while I was waiting, so don’t feel bad! I’m so happy for you that he was supportive–it sounds like you have a keeper πŸ™‚

Post # 14
343 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

When I told him I wanted to get married, I let slip about this website. He just laughed, hugged me, and told me I was crazy. I know I’m crazy, so it’s all good. It feels great that I don’t have to hide my laptop screen from him, now!

Post # 15
64 posts
Worker bee

I’m a secret! I dont even log in at home! I just dont want him knowing that i am OBSESSED with his last step of final commitment! I’m a waiting bee, and it really really really helps to keep me from talking to him about marriage, you know, so he can do it on his own. It has also helped me from going completely insaine/questioning everything/building resentment toward him for not asking yet. I’ve gotten pretty depressed over a lot of things that should have happeend by now. But i’ve learned that everyone is on their own inner timeline, things happen for different people at different times in their lives. Iwas ready 6 months in, we’ve been together for four years total, i’ve been waiting for 3.5 years now :/ I want to thank all of you for sharing your stories!! When it happens, it will happen!

Thats awesome that so many SO’s/FI’s/DH’s were so supportive!!

Post # 16
254 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2015

I was a secret, until Fiance kept asking “what are you doing?” when I was typing away. “Looking at the internet” stopped being a plausible excuse haha. He doesn’t know my username though, and I refuse to give it. What if I have an embarrassing question to post?!

ETA – I am engaged and didn’t join the site until then (was a random lurker before), but I feel like we’re in an engaged-waiting period now, because we’re not planning anything for a looooong time πŸ™‚

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