(Closed) Need advice on how to handle sister that is blinded by a guy wrong

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
Member
1461 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

I was once engaged to a guy that was totally wrong for me. A lot of family members tried to talk me out of it in unfriendly ways, but one aunt sent me an email explaining how she felt but that she respected my choices. I have a cousin who is in a similar situation now and this is my plan as well.

Post # 4
Hostess
7561 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: January 2013

She already knows that you don’t think it’s a positive relationship; I don’t think there’s much more you can do. You should just be supportive. You don’t want him to come between you further. 

Post # 5
Member
810 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2018

So your sisters’ boyfriend has another girlfriend that he’s been with for 7 years? Your sister should get tested. Who knows how many other “girlfriends” he has.  In my experience, if a guy wants to be with you he will make it happen.  Same thing if he doesn’t want to be with you anymore.  I doubt he’s breaking up with his other girlfriend any time soon.  Sooo your sister better be ok with the idea of an open relationship.  She does realize he’s most likely sleeping with the other girlfriend, right?

If your sister wants to be with him there isn’t much you can say to change her mind.  Just be ready for when shit hits the fan.

Post # 6
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13 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: October 2012

I agree with @AlwaysSunny. Your sister knows how you stand on this, so you don’t need to take a stand or anything. She already has been given plenty of advice, and you can’t really do much more to make her take it. Just try to find the good things in your relationship with her, spend time doing those things together and try to avoid bringing up her relationship with this guy. Don’t let him drive a further wedge.

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