(Closed) My sister crashed my wedding and got Shxx faced drunk

posted 10 years ago in Family
Post # 3
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2012 - The Gables Inn, Santa Rosa, CA

And this is why there will be no open mic for toasts at my wedding… I have a family member like this, and I’m hoping to avoid any opportunity for embarassment. 

Be sire to give your SIL a big hug for me for taking care of you!!! I’m sorry she came, but I’m glad to hear at least you didn’t let her monopolize on your day. 

Post # 5
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2012

@RVG1010:  if she wasn’t invited, i would have had someone escort her out immediately and save all of that headache.  guess she couldn’t been worse.

Post # 6
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

@RVG1010:  Don’t give it away. If she’s as toxic and spiteful as you say, she’s probably used some of the money off the card already, then you’d look like an idiot when you re-gift.

Post # 8
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2013

Some people… thank God it wasn’t worse! I was cringing through the whole post!

 

Post # 10
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494 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

@RVG1010:  Never thought I’d say the following words ever, but I wish I had been wrong!

Post # 11
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2200 posts
Buzzing bee

Wow, she is a bitch!

Post # 12
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

What that means is that she stole the card–it doesn’t have money on it until you pay for it.

One of my sisters is not invited for the very same reason–she is a total shithead and I cannot stand her.  I could go into it but it would be a very very long post.  I’ve been into it before on the bee–it’s a really long story.  But anyway–I also would have had someone escort her out had she arrived at the wedding.  I *will* have someone escort her out if she shows up.  I’m sorry she was a pain but I’m glad that you handled it gracefully and still enjoyed your day.

Post # 13
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Busy bee

Im sorry, this is pretty awful and I know how much it hurts. My brother did something similar at my first wedding and he is still apologizing for it.

 

Post # 14
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649 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

@jumpthegun:  either she used it…or it was one that was never activated (or paid for)

Post # 15
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

WOW, I’m sorry you had to endure her on your wedding day! Props to you for being mature and looking past it all to not let it ruin your day.  Very graceful!

I’m normally one to “let others fight their own battles”, but reading this (and the gift card clencher) really got me.  I’m glad I wasn’t one of your bridesmaids; truthfully I probably would’n’t have bitten my tongue and let her have a piece of my mind.

Post # 16
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

@RVG1010:  I am so sorry!  I have to have some pity for her because something deep down is really hurt/wrong/sad with her and she hasn’t gotten help for it.

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