(Closed) My sister invited her druggie/abusive boyfriend to the wedding

posted 8 years ago in Family
Post # 3
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

I’m sorry you had this happen to you on your wedding day.

If your sister and her boyfriend are both using cocaine, you can expect much worse behavior in the future.Addicts will do whatever they have to do to get their drug of choice, including lying, cheating and stealing.

Make a choice not to let her behavior push your buttons or ruin anything for you.

Post # 4
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

I think the Bridal Party members should always be allowed the bring a guest without and restrictions, but the fact that she didn’t tell you is aweful!!! I hope your wedding was perfect otherwise!

Post # 5
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1331 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2016

Did your sister act all guilty about it, or did she try to apologize?  I would’ve been so pissed as well, but thankfully he didn’t cause a scene at your wedding.  Eeeek, what a totally uncomfortable situation.  I hope your sister comes to her senses soon and gets the help she needs.

Post # 6
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2588 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: February 2014

Yikes. I second what @julies1949 said–make the choice not to let it bug you. I’m sorry this happened, though. That really sucks. 🙁

Post # 7
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860 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

Are this guy and your sister in a serious relationship?  If so, I don’t think you can really expect to exclude him, and she probably just assumed he was invited.  I really feel for you though, I am in a similar situation, and I’m trying to figure out how to exclude this dude, but I can’t figure it out.

Don’t let it bother you.  It’s over, you’re married, that’s all that matters 🙂

Post # 8
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5822 posts
Bee Keeper

There’s a reason she didn’t tell you beforehand.  She didn’t just “assume” he was invited.  She knew no one would want him there.  She played you and your family like a violin.  Especially your parents.  Drug addicts know exactly how to manipulate the people around them.  I know that you really despise this guy, but it doesn’t sound like your sister is a very good person either.

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