My sister is ruining my wedding!

posted 4 months ago in Ceremony
Post # 2
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682 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2018

So…if someone told me that they were going to do everything in their power to upstage me on my wedding day, I can’t say I’d be too hurt or surprised at them refusing to be my moh or a bridesmaid. 

Why on earth do you want her to be in your wedding anyway? Because she’s your sister? Honestly I wouldn’t even bother inviting her and save yourself the stress and drama. 

Post # 3
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Bumble bee

Steal her thunder and elope!

Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2019 - City, State

Why would you want her to be Maid/Matron of Honor or a bridesmaid? She sounds like a jerk. ignore her. She’s looking for attention and to upset you. So just be like “yeah okay cool sis go for it.” As soon as she realizes she’s having no effect, she’ll give up. Or she’ll be a crazy lunatic and people will laugh at her. Either way, she’s not going to ruin or upstage your wedding because she’s not the bride. 

Post # 5
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Worker bee

geez i wonder why a prize like her hasn’t found a guy yet.

Post # 6
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: January 2021

Definitely don’t have her in the wedding party or involved in any way.

And seat her in the nosebleeds.

Post # 7
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Bee Keeper

Well, if you do still invite her, she is going to look like a COMPLETE idiot. Especially if you are having a great time with your new husband, and maybe giving her a laugh or two for being such a fool. 

 

Post # 8
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2901 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2017

Are you guys even out of high school?  This sounds so childish and dramatic.

Post # 9
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

You can’t change her or her behavior.  You can change your response. Don’t let her push your buttons. Let what she says go in one ear and out the other. Part of the kick she gets is in anticipating, then seeing your reaction. DON”T REACT.

Post # 11
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2017

If she does all that, she’s going to look like a complete fool. Let her make an ass out of herself.

Enjoy your day, and don’t have her in your wedding party.

she can only ruin your wedding if you allow her to get under your skin

Post # 12
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2017

southernpeach99 :  did your fiancé tell YOU that maybe your sister and him would have been together? Or did this come from the sister who you say is trying to ruin everything?

Why would you marry someone who told you that? Someone who told you that you are second best? Someone who said if he met your sister before you, he would be with your sister?

Post # 14
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2018

southernpeach99 :  You’re a month out and haven’t chosen your bridesmaids or MOH? Or did she agree and now she’s saying she doesn’t want to be in the wedding? I don’t understand why you would want her around if she’s being so nasty.

Have her as a guest, don’t pay any attention to her, enjoy your special day.

ETA, I just read your update and I’d have a huge problem with my fiance telling my sister that they could have potentially ended up together… this whole thing seems really sketchy.

Post # 15
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2017

southernpeach99 :  I wouldn’t believe your sister. Not from what you’ve described, I would doubt he told her that

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