(Closed) My sister is wearing an ivory wedding dress to my wedding

posted 4 years ago in Bridesmaids
  • poll: Is it appropriate for my bridesmaid to wear a wedding dress to my wedding?

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    Yes

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  • Post # 196
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    Helper bee
    • Wedding: August 2016

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    jenniewrennie :  I just read this whole thread and I’m SO glad you put your foot down! 

    You are absolutely radiant and look so happy! I’m glad you had a great day. I feel sorry for your sister though(not coz she she should have worn the dress, that shit was fucked up) I see lots of therapy in her future.

    congratulations on your beautiful wedding! Wishing you and your hubs nothing but happiness and good things!

    x

    Post # 197
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    Helper bee
    • Wedding: August 2016

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    jenniewrennie :  I just read this whole thread and I’m SO glad you put your foot down!  You are absolutely radiant and look so happy! I’m glad you had a great day. I feel sorry for your sister though(not coz she she should have worn the dress, that shit was fucked up) I see lots of therapy in her future. congratulations on your beautiful wedding! Wishing you and your hubs nothing but happiness and good things! x

    Post # 198
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    Worker bee

    I read this whole thread too, and I’m so happy you had a great wedding day, free from drama!

    Also…lets talk about that bouquet! Oh my gosh IT’S GORGEOUS!!!!

    Post # 199
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    Honey bee
    • Wedding: June 2014

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    jenniewrennie :  Thank you for sharing your beautiful photos!!  You look stunning!!  

    Post # 200
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    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: August 2016

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    jenniewrennie :  You look gorgeous! I’m so glad you had such a happy day! Congrats!

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    Sugar Beekeeper

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    jenniewrennie :  

    You looked SO pretty, well done you ! What did your sister actually wear in the end ?

    Post # 202
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    Newbee

    Congratulations! You looked perfect. So glad that you could enjoy your specia day without your mother spoiling it for you. I’m happy that you stood up for yourself.

    Post # 203
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    Newbee

    Hey,

    Wow that sucks so bad!, Stand your ground to me that is horriable. Only the bride should wear white on the day. And to me sounds like your sister is having a teenage monment because she wants it to be about her and not you. Ask her how she would feel on her wedding day if you wore a wedding dress. 

    If it was me I would tell my mother how I feel and why. I understand you have done this bust say that the day is about you not about anyone else. I would even go as far to say I did not even know you got this dress and if she wants to be a bridesmaid she will have to wear another dress. 

    It is the one day in your life you get to be selfish and have everything the way you want it. Your sister and mum and being selfish. Stand your ground. Don’t let her wear the wedding dress as you are the only one who should be in white. 

    Hope thins get better for you soon 🙂

    Post # 204
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    Newbee

    No matter what you feel or say you are going to be so stunning on your day 🙂

    Post # 205
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    Sugar Beekeeper

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    ShortyGirl5515 :  

    She’s already  married – you need to look for updates in threads this big.

    Post # 207
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    Buzzing bee

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    jenniewrennie :  You look AMAZING! Congratulations bee, and well done on holding firm. I am so proud of you guys! Thank you for coming back and updating us. Wishing you both a lifetime of happiness together xxxx

    Post # 208
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    Buzzing bee

    I also wanted to say that one day your sister will grow up and will probably realise how fucked up everything was. She will forgive you, and you have many years to reconnect once she too escapes your mother’s toxic manipulation. 

    Post # 209
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    Buzzing bee

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    elderbee :  Her mumand sister didn’t end up attending

    Post # 210
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    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: Dorset, UK

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    jenniewrennie :  Oh my gosh – congratulations. Well done for standing up for yourself. You looked so beautiful and those flowers are everything!!!!

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