- 6 years ago
- Wedding: September 2012
My little sister (we are 16 months apart) is my Maid/Matron of Honor. a few years ago, she bacame a fashionista and diva or what not.. always had to be dressed up, wears a lot of make up, etc. i have always been very low key.. i do wear make up, but keep it more natural and i ALWAYS dress up for special occasions, but thats about it. im a jeans, and sandals type girl! im the type of girl that will go out with my hair wet from the shower (it doesnt get frizzy and is just a tad bit wavy) and wear my compact, a bit of blush and mascara and im done with it.
Everytime she comes down (she lives 5 hours away now) she is always trying to dress me or fix my make up or what not. its really annoying. we went to LA this past weekend to get stuff for my bridal shower and she literally inspected my outfit!
im not too sure the theme of my shower as her and my mother were buying a lot of random items and know the colors, but thats about it. i asked her if they wanted me to help decorate and she said no, just show up at 330. i said ok fine and that it worked out since on of my good friends is marrying a week after me and she so happens to have her bridal shower on the same day as mine, just at noon instead of 330… so i mentioned that i was going to attend her shower before mine and i will be there at 330.
this got my sister upset and said why do i want to attend another bridal shower before mine and i better come to my bridal shower dressed and looking nice. i told her that she didnt want me to help decorate so what was the big deal. she said that she put in a lot of effort for my shower and i shouldnt show up looking like i already attended a shower (i dont even know what that is supposed to mean) and that i better go to my mothers house after and fix myself before attending my own shower… excuse me?! i NEVER go to a special occasion without looking nice, i may not wear as much makeup as her, but i LIKE my makeup light. i dont have bad skin or pimples or anything.. why would she insult me? i told her that i will attend MY shower looking the way i want to and she was out of line for saying otherwise, my mom came over and my sister told her that i wanted to attend someone elses shower before mine, my mom asked if i would be at my shower on time and i said of course! i will be there 10 min early if you want me to.. she said “ok well thats fine” my sister goes on to say that i better look nice and blah blah blah.. i left.. and now im mad 🙁 its so annoying!