(Closed) My SO refuses to go to his cousins wedding…..

posted 6 years ago in Family
Post # 3
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Bumble Beekeeper

@Stranger516:  I wouldn’t go. If they haven’t spoken in two years, why bother. If he’s close with this cousin’s parents, hi might want to go for their sake, but if not, I don’t blame him for skipping it.

Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2013 - Walt Disney World

I think he’s perfectly within his rights to not want to go.  

Post # 5
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

I think he should go out of respect for his Aunt/Uncle.

Post # 6
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

@Stranger516:  Don’t meddle – let him make the choice, it’s his family.

Post # 7
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

Maybe he could just make an appearance to say hello to his aunt and uncle? His wedding gift could be a book on manners.

Post # 8
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

@Stranger516:  I wouldn’t.  And if she hasn’t spoken to him in 2 years, I’m guessing she really doesn’t want him at her wedding either and was forced to invite them for her parents.

What would him going help?  Maybe that he’s the bigger person, but she’ll probably see it as him trying to ruin her wedding day by being there.  If he doesn’t want to go, support him.  He did make the effort to go to her engagement party.

Post # 9
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

I wouldn’t go.  I don’t allow people to trample on me and try to force me to do things I don’t want to just because we’re blood related.  Anybody who treats me badly or tries to push me around (family or not) can kiss my ass.

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