- 6 years ago
- Wedding: October 2013
He got feisty last night – I’m the feisty one in this relationship!! Did my SO end up ordering my ring online last night, due to being annoyed and wanting to shut me up? Possibly.
Back track a little: He thinks a lot what I’ve been suggesting is soooooooooooo untraditional. After he asked for help understanding what I like in a ring, its like I’ve opened up pandora’s box for him to deal with.
1. moissanite instead of diamond (very confusing)
2. ordering & buying online (what about a jewelry store?)
3. ring might not fit and be “gone” to be sized (engaged but no ring on finger?) I’ve done my best to get my size correct but I’ve read many posts about it.
We narrowed a list of 8 or 9 rings down to 4 (3 rounds, 1 cushion), he will make the final decision.
After a few days of being quiet about rings and so on, I was saying jokingly that we should get on the laptop and order my ring, you know, get the creation process started. Usually he would just say ” Crazy ass!” and that would be it.
But instead he says, “why dont we order your ring real quick, put it on your credit card, have it shipped to our house, you sign for it, open it up before I get home, wear it around, show it to everyone you see before I even realize its delivered, then one of our of neighbors can tell me that I’m engaged!”
Uhoh, damage control needed! Haha, I laughed it off, fled the scene. In a short little while later, he was his sweet self again, called up a couple little questions, all was back to normal. My laptop was all closed up and internet shut down when I saw it this morning.
I understand that I have to shut up but beyond that, anything to do to make it better?