(Closed) My soon to be husband wants a threesome with another girl!

posted 3 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 31
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: March 2016

Take him to the bedroom…

Get out his suitcase and send him packing.

Post # 32
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

Tell him he’s being a see you next Tuesday and walk right on out that door.

Post # 33
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Bumble bee

I smell troll on this one. But if not a troll, I think the answer is obvious. 

Post # 34
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Busy Beekeeper

Say sure thing. As long as you get a MFM first. Then see him change his tune lol. 

Post # 35
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2015

howami:   then he should not be your husband anytime soon or not soon. 

Post # 36
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: City, State

Does anyone actually believe this is real?

Post # 37
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2016

He’s not ready for a monogamous marriage. He’s also incapable of not being a manipulative jerk about it. Even if the first one wasn’t a dealbreaker for you, the second should be. 

Nope nope nope nope nope.

Post # 38
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Helper bee

Who is your FI? Tiger Woods? Charlie Sheen?

You need a man, not a pimp.

Post # 39
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2016

troll

Post # 40
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

Yeah…. f*ck that guy. I have no issue with couples that like to swing, have threesomes, consensual whatever kind of sex. What you’re talking about is different. He’s trying to manipulate you and if he’s doing it now it will only continue. I’d leave his ass whether I was into a threesome or not because that’s not really what it’s about in your case. It’s a power and control thing. Tell him to eat it and go live a fabulous life without him.

Post # 41
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2013

Run like your ass is on fire.

Post # 42
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

howami:  I almost have no words

Do not marry him, not because he wants a threesome but because he’s a douchbag and is holding the marriage over your head like it’s a treat for completing the task of a threesome.

Ok I lied and because he wants a threesome as well, yes Im a prude.

Post # 43
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

southerncharm:  “You need a man, not a pimp.” Besides nearly choking on my food when I read it, all I can say is SO MUCH THIS OP!

Post # 44
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Helper bee

I hope this is a joke?!  If not, you absolutely need to leave him and don’t look back.

Asking for a threesome is one thing.  Telling you that you have to give him one before he marries you is completely unacceptable.  You must be 100% okay with having a threesome before you commit to it or you will deeply regret it.  My ex-husband wanted a threesome for a long time and it was a couple of years before I was to the point that thinking of having a threesome didn’t upset me at all.  Once I knew I was okay with it and actually wanted it as well, I told him and we had one.  I won’t lie, it did create some complications but I don’t regret it.  I will tell you right now that if you aren’t okay, you will regret it!!

Ugh, what an asshole….

Post # 45
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2019

I think this isn’t real.  Most women, once confronted with something like this would CREATE a dilemma in the boards:

“Oh he’s really a nice guy! He treats me well, and I’m very lucky.  But he wants a threesome”

Then followed by a couple of replies to how amazing their man is.

This post is a single paragraph, no backstory. It’s such an obviou answer too so there’s no surprises there.

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