- 5 years ago
- Wedding: March 2001
I’ ve been married awhile but when I got married my dad wouldn’t give me away. He said it was because he didn’t agree with it but I thought he was just late because of his reaction to when I was being married. Anyway my step sister no blood just got engaged. We get a long ok but she asked my dad to give her away. Now she has a dad but wanted my dad to give her away. He has been a part of her life for 12 years or so. At first I was mad if he would have said yes since he couldn’t do that for me. If he was late or didn’t want to I got married without my dad. He was there but didn’t do what I wanted him to do. We have had a rocky start and I still feel like today he cares more about the step kids then me. He always told me that he didn’t do it right the first time but has a second chance. He should try that with me. I would want nothing more then to have him in my life like my mom is but he has always been different. I am the only child besides my step siblings. Should I be mad if he gives her away? Should I be the bigger person and say to him that he needs to give her away? My father is cold hearted is the best way to explain him. His dad was not a good dad and it rubbed off on him. I have kids and always said I would never treat them like I was brought up. I need some advice on this. It’s hard for me to ask family. Please if anyone could help me out. I do want my step sister to be happy.