(Closed) My stepdaughter/flowergirl’s mom cut her hair SHORT! Grr!

posted 7 years ago in Beauty
Post # 3
10367 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2010


Why is this even on your list of things to worry about? A person’s hair and personal style should be dictated by the bride. It’s the wedding of you and your Fiance, not the “the bride gets control over the appearance of everyone in attendance” day…!

Post # 4
1684 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

hahahah. totally feel you on this.

my flowergirl/jr.bridesmaid shaved her head except for a strip in the middle from the front to about halfway down. internally i freaked but hey – what can you do? 

Post # 5
1 posts

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Post # 6
810 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Oooh, sorry OP, maybe you should take a step back and take a deep breath.

 “Why did you get it cut when I told you that you need long hair for your wedding day hair?

Sounds a bit controlling. It sounds as if your irritation is with the little girl’s mother, though, not really with the haircut. Who knows, maybe she did cut it short just to spite you. But is there anything you can do about it now? No. All you’re going to do by making a fuss over it is make this little girl feel bad. She will be a beautiful flower girl no matter what length her hair is. 

Post # 7
2192 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

I get the annoyance but if you didn’t specifically ask the mother not to cut her hair until after the wedding because of this prior decision with the child…there isn’t much that can be done. Sorry Frown

Post # 8
3572 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

ehh… if her mom wants it short, her mom wants it short.

Post # 9
2095 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

I can sympathize since I had a Bridesmaid or Best Man cut her hair two weeks after we had discussed hairstyles for the wedding. I was told by the bee to suck it up.

Unfortunately there is not much you can do about it now. 🙁 I felt the same way though. In my case it felt like spite since I had asked for curly updo’s and the girl in question said basically that she never puts heat on her hair nor uses product but would since it was my big day. Her hair is now to her chin so there will be no updo for her.

Post # 10
173 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2016

@Wannabe-diy-bride: Wow OP. I am not quite sure why people reacted to this post so violently…seems like a bit of an overreaction.

I understand that you were just venting and it’s okay. Just try not to lose sight of things. I am sure a cute headband will be just as beautiful for your day.

Post # 11
3176 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

You can get her a really pretty crystal headband / wreath or something? I always think that looks so adorable.

Post # 14
7431 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2009

You ladies are being a bit harsh!! She just said she was venting, and she already sounded over it by providing a solution at the end of her post. CHILL PEOPLE!

Post # 15
7300 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

lol She was just venting. You know you all vent about some bullshit once in awhile. At least she said that they would use a headband at the end instead of saying she is going to make her get extensions or turned into bridezilla to cuss out the mom for ruining her vision!

Post # 16
11391 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

@Miss Tattoo: LIKE! lol

Honestly I think every bride-to-be has a bridezilla moment! Or just needs to vent at some point weather or not WE see it as a worthy vent. Remember bee’s how all the emotions rush upon on you during planning.

But no, I wouldn’t have said anything to the little girl, at all. I do think bobs are really cute on children & adults. You can make it work. 🙂

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