Post # 1
I’m usually an upbeat happy spirite person, but I also have a very sarcastic side. I’m stressed because Fiance and I have been learning who our “true” friends are during this whole wedding planning process. I am hurt and disappointed in my friends, and some of his. I know, all that matters is that on our day the only person I need to be there is my groom (and of course my momma and immediate family)… But, I can’t help but be a “snarky” bi*tch today. No worries, I haven’t done any of these things and I won’t… It’s just in my head and Im sitting at work laughing at my bad thoughts…
I want to post on Facebook: “I already have my own asshole, I don’t need any others in my llife, goodbye”
i want to text my friend who bitched me out for not making her a maid, then declined for shower and wedding “good thing you weren’t in the wedding party, your absence would’ve stressed me out as a bride”
I want to post directions on how to recieve and reply to a wedding invite that’s STAMPED FOR A F-ing REASON!!
What nasty things have crossed your typically respectful and lady like mind since you have been wedding planning?
Ps. This is more as a joke than something I need to be scolded About. Lol
Post # 3
“I want to post directions on how to recieve and reply to a wedding invite that’s STAMPED FOR A F-ing REASON!!”
This crossed my mind so many times! I just wanted to call up everyone who didn’t respond and ask them why they were so rude! It’s so frustrating because I don’t understand how some people can be so clueless and rude! I understand that my wedding is not that important but seriously… how hard is it to put a piece of mail in your mailbox? Takes maybe a minute? Gosh… look at me. My wedding is done and I still get worked up about RSVPs!
Anyways, good job on not making the “friend” a maid. Looks like you made a good decision.
Also, good job posting your vent on here instead of on facebook 🙂
Post # 4
@MissMudge: Wow! That is so frustrating! I’m over a year away from getting married, and even before I got engaged the whole RSVP thing really worked me up. Like, for other peoples’ weddings. How hard is it?!?!?!?! Seriously???!! Although really weird, FI’s cousin is getting married and they did not send envelopes or stamps for the return card… yeah good luck to them in getting their RSVPs… We sent ours, but we’re on top of things. Other people won’t be! They don’t even know how to check a box and put a letter in the mail, let alone stamp it!
Post # 5
My venue assigned me a “designer” to do my floral, decor, and cake. I had an initial meeting with her and I took the boards I already made for my place cards (they were magnetic, covered in a coordinating fabric and had nice trim around them). Fiance helped me make them and they look great! Well, I showed them to her at our meeting, and she says “They look homemade” with a condescending tone. How rude! Yes they are homemade, they were inexpensive, they’re useful, and they look great. Shove it! I wish I had the guts to tell her how I really thought but I do have to work with her through the wedding.
Post # 6
I really want to post a passive aggressive facebook post that says
“It’s good to know who truly cares about you and who your real friends are! Thanks for making me feel special on my birthday!!!”
And tag my two friends while leaving off my “bestfriend” who I am phasing out of my life.
Ugh wish I could be a bitch sometimes lol
Post # 7
alyssaC Ugh! Doesnt that feeling suck. I too am phasing people out of my life…a few actually and so is Fiance. I am so sick and tired of constantly making the effort with people and they cannot do the same, or even just make a little bit of contact. I seriously want to “ditch” or phase out like 3 of my “friends” right now. I am moving on in life and dont want to be part of their fake relationships. My FH and kids (when they happen) will come first and I dont have time for the drama.
I wish there was like a speed dating for friends. You know, you go sit at a table and people rotate around the room. Except this would be to make friends…not SO’s. lol.