(Closed) My Suprise, A Complete Let Down

• MsFoxxy
• 11 years ago

• Wedding: October 2012

I agree with eloping

LoL.. kidding.  But I am sorry that you’re disappointed, doll.  I would be going bat crazy by now… you can’t utter the word “surprise” to a waiting lady! 

• saviandcrystal
• 11 years ago

• Wedding: February 2012

Ok I’m going to be a little bit different here.

Yes… WANTING to be engaged and have a beautiful engagement ring on your finger is beyond awesome.

But appreciate what you DO have right now as well. You have a man who loves you and WANTS to spoil you, buy you nice things, surprise you with gifts. A man who cares to shop for you, and bought you a diamond “just because”. You know how many girls… single, engaged, married… who would DIE for that??? Alot,

Now I’m not saying you’re being a witch or bratty or anything. I know the feeling of having one thing in mind (being engaged) and not seeing anything else very clearly.

TALK to him!!!! You can’t expect someone to automatically know your thoughts and your feelings, however wonderful this would be. Let him know where you stand, that you really honestly love him and are ready to be engaged to him and want to take THAT step seriously.

All in all…. just remember why you love him and why you’re with him in the first place. I gotta say I don’t agree with “dumping” him just because you didn’t get a ring right NOW.

Wish ya luck girlie and I hope you get that dream ring soon (I’m sure you will)