(Closed) My turn with advice :)

posted 9 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
3281 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

I’m afraid im going to miss waiting toooooooo! Its so fun lol

Post # 4
10218 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 2010

Ditto Mattel.  I loved waiting and definitely miss it. I wonder if I can go back to waiting and just sort of plan? 



NAH!! lol! But I do miss it because now I have to worry about finding the perfect dress and the other “perfect” things to live up to my company’s reputation etc. I am physically sick thinking about it.

Post # 5
1280 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

oh crebre – not to worry! you know it will all work out to be FAB-YOU-LOUS!! (notice i used the word “you” there Wink )

ahh such sage words of advice, Mattel. but honestly, i can’t WAIT until i can start pulling the trigger. i’ve been daydreaming for like 2 years now!!! which is long enough to feel like i know what i want and i’m ready to go get it! i’m not a type A person at all but i looooove planning. making sh** happen is actually what i do for a living – i’m just waiting for my life to catch up!

Post # 6
2408 posts
Buzzing bee

aww thanks for the advice mattel and crebre! it’s like it’s all fun and games until you have to get up and actually do something!

Post # 7
7173 posts
Busy Beekeeper

@Mattel – I waited almost 4 years until he popped the question and I think your advice is SPOT ON.  Although, it’s so hard to be on this side of it giving that advice to those waiting.  I’m not sure I would have heard it and truly understood until going through it.  Also, give yourself a few months to let it all sink in.  Those first few weeks were the most overwhelming – I thought I had all the ideas sorted out – but when it came to making the actual decision it was a totally different ball game!!  One day at a time – enjoy the ride!!

Post # 8
168 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

Mattel, I feel the same way!

I have been looking at ideas for a few months now and bookmarking things and now I have to go through all those bookmarks and actually call vendors and figure out not only what I like….but what I will DO for my wedding.  It’s a very daunting!

Post # 9
99 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: December 1969

I agree too, although I don’t know if I *miss* it. I didn’t like waiting at all, I was so impatient, but awhile afterward, I wished that I had stopped to “smell the roses” and enjoy it more, because it really is such an exciting time.

Post # 10
3587 posts
Sugar bee

I won’t miss waiting, but I will miss imagining with no budget.LOL

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