(Closed) my two bridesmaids don’t get on with each other!!!

posted 6 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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Bumble bee

@trinity_542:  First, I’m sorry you have to deal with this! It’s the last thing you need in addition to all the other things that worry a bride-to-be!

When you had lunch with Megan, did you tell her that you didn’t appreciate the way she was talking about Sophie? I know you said you don’t want to be involved, but if you don’t set boundaries for these girls, it sounds like it may get out of hand. Each of them needs to know that you are firmly putting your foot down and not accepting any kind of behavior that will worry you or create drama surrounding YOUR wedding. The quickest way to resolve this is to make it known you won’t allow them to be catty with each other and that you have hard limits with regards to what kind of behavior is allowed. If they both love and respect you, they should be adult enough to set aside their differences and make everything special and worry-free for you!

Post # 4
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Buzzing Beekeeper

Definitely talk with them. Don’t be afraid to speak up. I’m in the same boat. I have 2 bridesmaids who don’t like each other, from an old high school grudge. It’s one-sided, the other one doesn’t care and is making effort to be nice but the other is just not willing to. I’ve kept communication open about how I feel and it’s worked.

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