(Closed) My update to the CPS thread

posted 9 years ago in Relationships
Post # 17
1543 posts
Bumble bee

So glad things are going well, and hope they stay that way. Thanks for the update!

Post # 18
340 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

Thank you for the update. You and your husband did the right thing!

Post # 19
1504 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

Good for you! That was an incredibly brave and compassionate thing you did. Your neice is very lucky to have you advocating for her when she cannot herself.

Post # 20
5295 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: January 1993

You and your DH did such a wonderful thing for this young girl – she’s going to be so grateful to have you in your life as she gets older and realize the courage and love it took to step in.

Glad to hear things are much better now 🙂

Post # 21
7429 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2009

I can’t imagine WHY anyone would have anything negative to say about this???

I am so glad you did an update, and anyone who has anything negative to say can suck it. You and hubs did a great thing, and I hope that your SIL gets her shit together and continues to be a good mom. At least you are of the right to be able to stop in whenever you want, and I’m sure if anything else happens again, you wil be there to pick up the pieces. ((HUGS))

Post # 22
2191 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

Thank you so much for the update!! 

What you guys did for that little girl is amazing!! 

Post # 23
13094 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2010

Thanks for the update!

You guys definitely did the right thing!

Post # 24
3620 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

wow! Sounds like you did the right thing. Good for you guys! Hopefully you won’t need to intervene but it’s nice that you’re prepared to do so! Hopefully everything stays pleasant!

Post # 25
1457 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

@Mrs.ChubbyBunny The word needs more people like you two! Amazing.

Post # 26
5890 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2010

You are amazing and your neice(s) will be able to thrive and grow just knowing they have you in their lives. 

Post # 27
2140 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

Your nieces are so lucky to have you guys in their life. Many aunts and uncles WILL NOT do the same.

Have you ever broached the subject of if something were to happen to SIL what will happen with the kids? Who will get legal custody? It does not sound like Mother-In-Law will be the best fit for the job although legally she will get them. Something worth considering.

I’ve thought about this a lot and don’t know how to broach the subject with my brothers. I truly feel my husband and I will be the best fit to take care of our nieces and nephews (on both sides) if god forbid anything were to happen to them

Post # 29
5117 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

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@Mrs.ChubbyBunny I am so glad to see this update. I’d been thinking of you all. You are a dear part of those girls’ lives, and you did what you needed to do. Keep up the relationships you are for their sakes. *hugs* to you and your hubs, you’re such good folks for those girls.

Post # 30
5667 posts
Bee Keeper

CB, you’re awesome. That is all.

Post # 31
246 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

I am so glad you updated us! i did read this when you posted. i dont remember if i had posted anything, but im glad all is well. its crazy how children can change in a different (in this case better) environment. I hope she doesnt give you another reason to take those girls away, but its good that they have you there to step in to defend them when they are unable to. Kudos to you girly!

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