Post # 1
My cousin passed away about 3 weeks ago and he was one of our two ushers. I currently do not wish to replace him. However, is it crazy to have one usher for about 100 guests?
My real questions is though how would you word something specific in the program to honor my cousin as the usher that isn’t with us? We are going to do a memorial candle for other family members that have passed. However, I really want something specific in the program for him since he was going to be in the wedding party.
Post # 3
Can you have your guests wear a ribbon or pin that would represent him!?!? Or have them maybe given out with your programs to be worn during your ceremony/reception!
I am so sorry for your loss!
Post # 4
I would put something in the program if you want to. My Grandmother died about a month before our wedding and we did a little “In memory of” on our programs. It is a nice way to honor him and for people to see but still keep the mood and day about your wedding. Very sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you!