- 8 years ago
- Wedding: May 2011
I’m new here and just found this waiting board. I’ve been dating my boyfriend for almost 4 years and lived together about 1 1/2 years. I’m 22 and he is 27.
We have been talking seriously about engagement all year. He talked about it a couple weeks before Valentines Day, which of course got me excited but it didn’t happen then. He makes different comments about many people knowing when we will get engaged or that he knows how he will do it. He also tries to confuse me by throwing out a lot of different times and other various comments. I know he is enjoying this waiting game because he’s told me that several times…but I’m not so much anymore. =p
I know he asked my Dad, he told me that but my sister told me he asked him in March. I guess at that point he was planning to do it on my spring break but we didn’t do anything for spring break. Money was a little tight at the time because I was in school full time and will be again for one more semester.
He has planned a weekend trip in 2 weeks. He’s never really planned anything before, not even a random date night. He won’t tell me where we are going and said he didn’t even want to tell me when but I was trying to schedule other things. I also was talking about getting new phones and he said he’d rather wait until after that weekend because it’s going to cost an arm and a leg. He did tell me a couple months ago he didn’t think it was very creative to get engaged on a trip…I don’t know if he said that to throw me off so it’s a surprise or if it’s really how he felt! I don’t want to get my hopes up that this is it but it might be, I would like to fast forward to next Friday!
I’m going crazy waiting so glad I found others who are too.