(Closed) My waiting update – kinda long so consider yourself warned!

posted 6 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
1157 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

I’m sorry! Breakdowns are no good, but with all those emotions building up, it’s understandable how it would happen. It does suck to be a woman some days! 

It sounds like you guys might need some time before you can talk engagement/wedding again. Take the summer and just stay busy with things that interest you. Invest time in yourself! It’s not easy not knowing where you stand. However, with the intensity of the last argument, you need time to cool down and focus on yourselves. Maybe just focus on the relationship where it’s at. 

Then when you are ready, you can bring it back up in a rational manner. It’s still important to be on the same page, so I think you should still try to approach the topic at some point. Maybe he’ll surprise you and propose sooner than you think. 

Everyone makes mistakes or says things that they don’t mean. Your SO will surely understand. It sounds like he loves you and wants to continue to have a relationship. Whether that means he’s still ready to propose is a different story. Take it a day at a time and get yourself back to a happy place. 

Hope that helps! Hugs!!!

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