- 5 years ago
- Wedding: May 2011
I saw a post on here about her wedding day not going to be the best day of her life and I just had to post my story. I haven’t been on here in almost 3 years. I don’t won’t wedding shows and I can’t really discuss weddings without being a little salty about my own.
Nothing terribly bad happened on my day. In fact everything went like it was supposed to but I was so stressed and worried about all the details that I could not enjoy it. It was not a fairy tail day. I pictured everything feelong magical and everyone feeling like it was a holiday. But in reality it was a party for everyone else and the only one that was really felt like it was a special day was my husband and I. I put too much pressure on it and ended up feeling overwhelmed.
The most happy memory I have is waking up the next morning to my husband. the light was shining in our hotel room. He had made me coffee and we were alone and married. I wish we had Aloped. I feel less bad about it now that I have had time to calm down about it. I can finally admit that I’m jealous of everyone else having magical care free days and that’s why it’s hard to talk about it. I’m in a happy marriage and I know it’s not all about that one day. I thought I would pass this along. Don’t get so worked up about. After all Is said and done all you will have left is your husband morning coffee and the memories.