(Closed) My Wedding is Causing My Mom To Act Crazy! Not Speaking to Her

posted 9 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
1075 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

Sweetie, I am so sorry you are upset. Your mother is making it hard because she has unresolved feelings and the pain of not having what she thinks you deserve and it is making her unhappy. She is sad because she feels like her life should be better than it is because she really wants to be there with you to make the arrangements and feels left out because she cant afford to fly or take time off work.

I just described her feelings nothing of what I said you caused or created. This is your time and it is being overshadowed by her issues. You need to have a talk with her and not when the issues come up but when she is calm and can hear you because she really doesnt understand how much it is affecting you.

She needs to know you understand why she is acting this way and you love her and wish she was there too but it is not possible. You are not blaming her for anything and she is the reason why you are independent and can do what needs to be done.


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