(Closed) My wedding is in 30 days and I hate EVERYTHING about it but the groom!!

posted 7 years ago in July 2011
Post # 3
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541 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

holy jesus I just had dejavu…Im getting married the same day.  I totally feel you.  I hate everything right now.  Im either going to slit my wrist or have an AA meeting at this wedding before it happens.

 

 

Post # 4
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979 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

Huggs!!  Can you and your Darling Husband to be fly off after the wedding and have a beautiful destination wedding for two??  Do you have a picture of you in the dress??  I’m sure you will be beautiful in it.  I’m not having my dream wedding either, so I can sympathise with you.  I gave in to a lot of things for my parents too.  Maybe in a year you can have a renewal ceremony that you and your Fiance pay for.  Then it will be your way:)  Keep your chin up, you are remember you are marrying your dream man.

Post # 5
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369 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

πŸ™ I am so sorry.  I want to say to just focus on you and Fiance getting married.. but I know at a time like this it might not help much or be what you want to hear. πŸ™

Post # 6
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84 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: May 2007

@bconvoy: I am soooo sorry. πŸ™ It sounds like they all just decided to plan a wedding…. without you. I really wish your Fiance had his birth certificate. Or maybe I don’t…. Because I think my honest opinion here would be to elope. But just like cincity75 said, you DID get your dream man, so not all is bad news…right?

It keeps cutting off my posts…:(

 

Post # 7
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84 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: May 2007

@blondilocks: I thought I was reading a double post…. The first thing I was going to type was your name and a link back to your post, it was so simular. So sorry that the both of you feel this way. πŸ™

Post # 8
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Wannabee
  • Wedding: May 2011

i felt the same about my dress.. i told to my boyfriend and he told me something i will never forget: “the dress doesn’t make you look beautiful, you make the dress look beautiful” (sounds better in spanish LOL )… i’m sure you look gorgeus, its just we are so nervous that we forget the whole point of this… been there! cheer up girl!! πŸ˜€ Greetings from mexico!

Post # 9
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2010

im seeing a lot of i wants but i wants on someone elses dime – im sorry but as my mom said growing up, what you want and what you get are two different things.

if you want things a certain way then you need to say no thank you to everyone else and pay for it yourself. im most probably going to be the sole bitch voice on this but if you dont like how things are you should cancel it until you can afford the things you want without having to have anyone elses imput/money to pay for it

goodluck

Post # 10
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

@ApplePie:  Im thinking maybe you are right…our weddings are on the same day.  I cant take the stress anymore. 

I also read your advice on another thread and thought it was perfect.  I could totally see myself doing this and Im going to think of that on my wedding day.  Totally out of my hands.  Just deal and let it go.  Right?? LOL

Post # 11
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Newbee
  • Wedding: July 2011

Awww… Sweetie it will be ok… MAke the best of it ;). All that matters is that you and the groom LOVE eachother. πŸ˜‰ Best wishes!

Post # 12
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

@eloping:I second your thoughts so you aren’t the only bitch!

 

OP – I’m confused about the dress situation, you no longer fit into a dress that your ordered or already had?  I don’t see how this would be your parents issue to fix…

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