Post # 1
two people who RSVPd just called me and said the cant make it. Another two texted me and said they cant stay any later than 4pm. It starts at 130pm. Now there will be only 7 people there including my grandma, Fi’s mom, and my two bms. I had originally invited 20 people. I am not gunna lie but I am pretty bummed about going now. Do you think it will still be fun?
Post # 3
As long as you have a positive attitude it will be! Don’t focus on who isn’t there, but who is! I am having a small shower because a lot of people can’t make it. It’s okay, because some can and it will be fun!!
Post # 4
@Tswife4ever: I am sorry that not everyone showed up. I don’t know what you have planned, but it’s going to be fun don’t worry. This is a special occassion, try to enjoy it with the people that are attending because they are coming for you. Because you are special.
<3/Ms. Polar Bear
Post # 5
aww.. I’m sorry, i went in with the attitude that if just my mom and 3 of my bridesmaids came it would be fun. but I live 2 hrs from those girls so it’s fun because I don’t see them very often. Mine is in a week, so we’ll see who actually shows up. good thing my moh doens’t tell me who RSVP’d. i’ll be pleasantly suprised. have fun, be happy!!
Post # 6
Aw I would be bummed too!! Is this the only shower you are having? Maybe your BMs will notice that this one didn’t have quite the response you were looking for and throw you an extra one, like a lingerie shower or something. So sorry this one isn’t turning out how you had hoped!
Post # 7
yes as long as you go in with a great attitude it will be enjoy the 7 people that are there and do not worry about the people who did not show up
Post # 8
aww thats disappointing. Smaller parties can be a lot of fun though. People mingle more so I’ll bet everyone will have a great time. Understand that people get busy with their own lives, which in no way reflects how much they care about you.
Enjoy today. and give us an update after. 🙂
Post # 9
I don’t think leaving a 1:30 shower at 4 is such a big deal – they’ll be there for most of it!
Post # 10
Awe I’m sorry. 🙁 that’s how mine turned out too. I was a little hurt, but ignored it and had a good time. My mom threw me another bridal shower a couple weeks later and more people arrived to that. Sometimes it’s just on a bad day and tons of stuff comes up and people can’t make it. 🙁